I think Carl's wording was something along the lines of "I think we should spend some time together and go on a date sometime." more or less. I was tired then and I'm tired now so getting an exact quote or something even close to it would be impossible.

Ugh. Could not do a threeway. Sometimes it's all I can do to remember why I'm Hillary's friend let alone anything else. XD; I'm all for poly and totally get how that sort of thing works, but just... yeah that's not gonna happen here.

Turning people down period is something I fail at though, which is part of the issue.